At Montessori Hub, we understand that emotional intelligence is one of the key areas of a child’s development. For preschoolers, the ability to recognize their emotions, regulate them, and understand the feelings of others is not an "additional skill," but the foundation of communication, confidence, and successful learning.
Practical Tools
The development of emotional intelligence happens not only through conversation, but through daily practice. One of our most effective tools is the use of emotion cards. Through them, children learn to recognize facial expressions, connect them with their inner experiences, and name their feelings using words.
We also regularly discuss real-life situations during circle time — without focusing on any specific child. For example, we explore what can be done if someone damages your work or takes something that belongs to someone else. This format creates a safe space for reflection: children learn to analyze actions, consider different perspectives, and find solutions without fear of punishment.
Conflict as an Opportunity for Growth
In the Montessori approach, conflict is seen as an opportunity to better understand oneself and others. When disagreements arise, the teacher helps each child become aware of their feelings:
— "You're feeling angry because you were interrupted."
— "You're feeling sad because you also wanted to work with that material."
We provide children with concrete tools to find solutions independently — for example, the "Peace Rose," which helps them take turns listening to one another and reach mutual understanding. Gradually, the child learns not to wait for an adult to provide the answer, but to find it independently through dialogue, respect, and awareness. Over time, children begin applying this skill on their own, without teacher intervention.
The Prepared Environment
At Montessori Hub, we use positive discipline tools: offering limited choices within clear boundaries, establishing consistent routines, and maintaining predictability throughout the day to create a sense of safety and confidence. Children participate in creating classroom rules, care for the environment together, and once a month have the opportunity to feel like "classroom hosts," helping organize their peers and support the teacher. This fosters internal discipline and responsibility — the foundation of healthy self-esteem.
The experience gained during the preschool years stays with a child for a lifetime. At our school, we believe that true independence is born through understanding feelings and boundaries — both one’s own and those of others.